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Ishq/love is the only way to reach Allah and Faqeer is the person who is with Allah and Allah is greater then All and shariat is from Allah and on Allah there's no shariat and Talb/thurst is the search of path to reach Allah by Talib/seeker and Taqdeer/fate is what is already predestined/written to happen but its also true Faqeer can change Taqdeer and ba-adab/well mannered person is ba-murad/gets his desire and be-adab/ill-mannered person is namurad/stays without his desire fulfilled and so it's true first Adaab/good manners are necessary then later is thought of ishq and faqeer is that person who gains faqr and when faqr reaches highest stage then that is Allah and ishq is not easy to gain as Hazrat Sultan Bahu ra says if ishq was easy everyone who would become ashiq but Hazrat Sultan Bahu ra also says Hard is that Bahu (ra) which does not please our heart and so Faqeer is Ashiq as ishq is the only way to Allah so faqeeri is ishq path and ishq path is not easy and its written In Quran as mentioned in Book Muhabbat ul Asrar page 5 " You will never attain good deed upto to that time until you sacrifice in way of God of that which is most Beloved to you" and its written in Noor ul Huda Qalan for to gain Deedar of Allah do some good deeds and its also written in Nurul Huda Qalan its Hadith page no 102 " aam logon ki nakian muqarabien ke haan gunah shumar hoti hai " meaning the Good deeds of the common person are as like bad deeds to the people who have great closeness with Allah " and faqeer is with Allah thus he has great closeness with Allah and its written in Hadith " Faqr is my pride and faqr is from me " and its said in abiat Bahu (ra) to agree faqeer " je tu chahe wahdat rab dei mal murshid dian talian hu " it means if you want to be granted Tauheed (Closeness to Allah) then rub the feets of your Spiritual Guide (in essence it meaning is for to making faqeer agree do all as he says for as long as he says even if you have to rub his feets to get granted Tauheed) and its also written in Nurul Huda Qalan page no 241 " talib mureed ko dam qadam per sabit qadam rehna chahiye kionke talib mureed masl Hazrat Musa A.S aur Murshid Hazrat Khizr A.S ke hota hai " meaning the seeker on every single step should stay firm footed in path(i.e tests by murshid , belief in murshid ) as the Seeker and Spiritual Guide are like the Hazrat Musa A.S and Hazrat Khizr A.S .And its also said in Hadith as mentioned in Books of Hazrat Sultan Bahu ra " Ilm ka hasool har aik mard aur aurat per farz hai " Its obligatory on every Man and Women to acquire Knowledge and its also said on page 83 Book Nurul Huda Qalan " Marifat Khuda wandi , tauheed aur faqr mein wohi shaks qadam rakh sakta hai jo sab sei pehle apne wajood ko ilm kei saath mazboot keri aur apne jism ko ilm sei arasta keri aur taman wajood ko ilm sei paak keri kionke ilm ke baghair khuda ko nahi pehchana ja sakta"meaning the mystical intuitive knowledge of spiritual truth to reach God(Marifat khudawandi),Tauheed (real closeness to Allah) and Faqr only that person can step into these who first strengthens his body with knowledge and he enlighten himself with knowledge and purify all his body with knowledge as without knowledge one cannot recognize Allah. And its also said in Hazrat Sultan Bahu ra Books and its Hadith " Jahil ka iqtaqad gadhe ki rasi ke manind hota hai " meaning the firm belief of the ignorant is like the rope of the Donkey and its also written in Books "Cheez to cheez hai Jahil koi Cheez nahin" meaning a Thing is a thing but a ignorant is nothing and its written in Nurul Huda Qalan english page no 58 "this path pertains not to mere verbal discussions but it is pathway of test and ordeals" so its to be understood there are test;s also in faqeeri(way of Faqr) and lastly its written on page 98 Nurul Huda Qalan har ilm Isme Allah Zaat sei khul jata hai jo koi Isme Allah Zaat perhta hai woh sahibe nijaat aur arif khuda ban jata hai and page no 102 " yeh bhi talib ke liye farz ain ke talib pehle murshid kamil aur Murshid Naqis me Tameez Kerien jesie ke aurat na mard shohar ke tajarba ker leiti hai and its written in page no 126 faqeer ke do maratib hai faqir ibtada mei ashiq hota hai. faqir ka dosra martaba yeh hai ke faqir intiha mei mashooq hota hai and page 157 ye raah sabit qadmi ki raah hai aur ba-iqtaqadi ki raah hai and its also important to mention page no 169 " Qadri Talib mureed mast oont ki tarha kante aur jahria khata hai aur (Isme Allah Zaat ka) baari booj othata chala jata hai " and page no 175 " aur talib faqeer bhi faqeer ki hadiat wo talqeen sei pahle rooz hi tamamiat faqr ko pohanch jata hai " and the signs of kamil faqeer on book page no 178 and book page no 216 " Talib woh hai jo deedar ka beghair tamam matalib sei dast bardar ho " and its also written " Mureed woh hai jo apni koi khawaish nahi rakhta " and page no 232 " arif logon ka kaam ahle dunia jaisa kaam nahi hai woh apni nazr sei agar sona banana chahe tu un kei liye kuch dushwar nahi " and page no 238 " talib ke yeh be itbaari aur be iqtaqadi ki ilamat hai ke khidmat ke ayam wo maah wo saal shumar ker ki jatai balkei apni ihtayaraat murshid ke hawaley ker dei aur khidmat ke baat zaban per na laye aur dum na marie " and page no 239 " aghar talib murshid sei be-iqtaqad ho ker ro gardan ho ker uski mukhalifat keri tu masl khas kam jahan paak dunia woh uqbe mei khalaq ho jata hai " also on page 241 " jo talib din , mahine aur saal ginta hai aisa talib jasoos ki manind hai" its also written on same page " talib haqiqi hona bohut sahat aur mushkil kaam hai " . Lastly i remember a Saying of Faqeer " Ik Haad Tape Auliye do Haad Tape Peer Jeeriyan Sariyan Hadan Tape Odha naam Faqeer " .
But if dil/heart tarpe/yearns for someone and person is very bad person ill mannered and he makes mistakes then what he should do to be successful to make his mahboob/beloved agree and ilm/knowledge is light of the path and nothing is impossible insha Allah.